Moving is a part of life. We move from day one as we are
welcomed into this world. We move as we reach new life milestones and academic
journeys and as we encounter career paths and destinations. Life as we know it
is a continuum of moving.
As one can relate, part of moving requires packing our life
into boxes, reflecting the passing of time and the promise of growth. As a chapter closes, your heart and emotions
are intermixed with joy, hope, and sadness, finding ways to relish the precious
assets of time.
My words may send buoyant memories to your heart as you
recall the moves in your life journey, hoping to build new connections and
friendships and settle into a new community.
In 2023, settling into a new community was an achievement at
my age. A life stage only possible with the support of my family and work
associates, helping me find ease and calm in my new quarters set to establish new
memories while holding close to the past.
As my family and I packed up my study filled with many sermons,
articles, pictures, and artwork cascading the walls, memories became more vivid
through each filling box. While many helped the physical move happen emotionally,
this life step tested every fiber of my being.
In my years, moving was a simple part of life, undoubtedly
due to the support of Myra. With Myra at the helm of the family, anything was
possible. Myra was uniquely able to make anything happen, no matter the
challenge. To this day, she still inspires me and the many people she touched
to champion forward.
Whenever someone would tell her,
“You can’t do that,” Myra would nod and say, “Just watch me.”
Today, as I compose this piece, after nearly six-plus months
in my new home, I am still acclimating and finding my new reality each day, and
each day the puzzle pieces begin to fit.
One of life’s treasures in moving is “downsizing” and
appreciating the past while seeing hope on the horizon. Many old treasures have
resurfaced as I settled into my new home setting pictures, pottery, artwork,
and refiling sermons such as “Family—A Time for Loving,” which I
composed in May 1988.
As I read the old sermon aloud, I could recall every being
of Myra, from her kindness and strength and her unwavering support to
many. Myra adored our family life and
was the one who kept us grounded and focused on our goals with her “can do”
attitude. Whatever family moves and transitions we faced, she made it impossible possible. Her joy in being the family guardian kept us on the path of hope and
rekindling happiness despite any times of challenge or life stressors. She
reminded us to keep moving forward.
While Myra cared for our family, she was also her own
person. She started The Giving Tree and numerous other communal efforts to help
people near and far. She was a leader, a champion, and someone I will forever
admire. She keeps me moving to this day.
-Rabbi Merle E. Singer
Attitude
is the most essential thing in life. There is always something to look forward
to if you are determined to find it. I remember Myra’s words, “Don’t worry
about what you don’t have. Do your best with what you do have.”
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